Жена со вишок килограми и сопруг како од насловна страница испраќа моќна порака за самодовербата

Одличниот изглед на нејзиниот сопруг ѝ го зголемувало чувството на несигурност околу нејзиното тело, но чашата ја прелиле двата спонтани абортуси.

Џена Качер работи како свадбен фотограф и забавувач. Има вишок килограми и маж со неверојатно мускулесто тело.

Таа открива дека токму фактот што нејзиниот партнер изгледа толку неодоливо ја правел несигурна.

 

I was in the bathroom stall when I heard them chatting. As I washed my hands, I asked them how old they were. ✨ They were 21 and out for the night, I smiled and said, “Oh, I remember 21!” One girl asked, “What advice would you give your 21 year old self if you could go back?” ✨ I told her: I would stop hating myself because it would never make me happy, to have fewer friendships that were deeper, to be kind to everyone, for battles are being fought, that hurt people, hurt people, and to wait for the man who loved me for who I was and who I would become. ✨ We walked out of the bathroom and @kickingitwithkutch pulled me in for a kiss. She smiled and whispered to me, “Is he the one you waited for?” I grinned and nodded yes, he’s the one. ✨ What advice would you give your younger self? Let’s be the people we needed back then.

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Деновиве таа сподели фотографии од одморот на Хаваи со саканиот Дру и испрати моќна порака до сите жени со вишок на килограми:

„Дел од мојата несигурност од изгледот потекнуваше токму од тоа што сум мажена со Господин со совршени стомачни мускули. Како јас, заоблената девојка, го добив него? Се чувствував безвредно и сметав дека не го заслужувам затоа што не сум слаба.

Но, овој маж ги прегрнуваше моите облини, секој вишок килограм и секоја акна во последните 10 години и секогаш ме потсетуваше дека сум убава, дури и кога тоа не се поклопуваше со мојот внатрешен дијалог (дури и кога се немав истуширано со денови).

 

Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. ?? This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match (and when I haven’t showered in days.) ?? So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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Па, да моите бутови се широки, моите раце големи, исто и задникот, но тоа значи само дека има повеќе од мене за тој да сака и јас избрав маж кој може да се справи со сето тоа (и многу повеќе).“

 

Find the one you wanna tackle on the beach. We’re more pancakes on the couch while watching “This is Us” than going out kind of people. ? We’re more adventures over things and less is really more kinda people. We’re fans of wine tastings that happen on the couch and church on Sunday mornings. ? We let our dogs sleep under the covers and we list three things we’re thankful for every night before falling asleep. ?? We’re small town folks with big dreams. We’re going places together and we’re still getting sand out of unmentionable places while we settle back into our little Midwest life. ? We are wildly filled with gratitude and excited for what’s to come. And yes, I love @kickingitwithkutch! (Have you seen how cute he is?) ?? What’s the number one thing you look for in finding your partner in crime? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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Инаку, Џена досега преживеала два спонтани абортуси и вели дека отворањето за емоциите и личните борби многу и помогнало.

„Мислам дека длабоко во нас, како жени, нашиот најголем страв е дека не сме доволни, дека нашите тела се скршени и по преживувањето на две огромни загуби навистина ми беше потребна голема борба за да си „дојдам дома“ во моето тело.“

 

Waking up on what feels like my birthday because it’s a day devoted to celebrating alllll the ladies out there! ? Whether you’re barely surviving, ultimately thriving, making moves, mom-ing, inspiring change, leading others, or simply showing up just as you are, I LOVE YOU. There is no mistake you woke up today, you were made for such a time as this. ?? Today we woke up to find @goaldiggerpodcast featured by iTunes and goodness gracious that little pipe dream of mine has turned into a movement for hundreds of thousands of women that I couldn’t be more proud of. ?? Here’s to my goal diggers, may we know them, be them, and raise them! Tag 3 women who inspire you below (and maybe, just maybe I’ll try and get them on the show!) ? Custom swimsuit made by my boo: @alltwerkandnopray

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Таа додава дека се надева дека сите жени ќе научат дека треба да бидат сакани такви какви што се и ќе сфатат дека приказните кои некогаш си ги говорат во главата не се точни.

„И јас бев несигурна поради тоа што до себе имам маж кој изгледа неверојатно, но сега тоа го гледам само како доказ за мојата убавина и моќ“, порачува Џена.

 

Let’s play a little game called: 2 truths and a lie! You guys have to guess which one is the lie! ▫️ 1️⃣ I was kindly voted “most accident prone” in my high school. 2️⃣ I wore the same Minnesota Twins sweatshirt every day for 7th grade. 3️⃣ I have four tattoos on my body and got one on the day I turned 18. ▫️ You think you know me? Let’s find out! I wanna see what you guess! Comment below! I’ll reveal the answer tomorrow!??

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